New Direction!

So I decided that I don't want to put off that I'm super negative about dating or anything. So this blog here is going to change directions a slight bit.

Fairly recently ago I was talking to one of my friends about dating and just so you all know it comes up alot with this particular friend. She's been married for quite awhile and is dying to line me up with someone or at least give me tips to getting a boy friend. Well she started telling me that I really need to wear more makeup, because that what gets guys to notice you more. So I explained that I do wear makeup when I need to, but she kept trying to tell me that I need to wear more makeup then what I was. Well I think it's ridicules to change how you are just to impress guys who most likely won't notice anyways. And so I didn't pay much attention to it, although I was a bit disturbed that you've got to put on this fake look to impress guys.  Or disturbed at least that girls think that they've got to put on a fake appearance anyways.

So if any of you who have come to this conclusion then I'm just here to say that makeup isn't everything. I do actually know guys who have told me that they don't care about makeup, although they're married guys of course. But I agree with these guys about that, just because outward appearance shouldn't be what a relationship is built off of in the first place. Yeah it probably matters somewhat, but if you've got guys who want to date you just for that then are they really the guys you want to be dating anyways?

So about a year or so ago one of my roommates was taking pictures for a photo class. Well all of us in the apartment got designated to be in her pictures. So of course I had to get all filled up with makeup and what not. Well we took the pictures and then I had to run over to an institute activity, which was a fun activity. But suddenly all these random, super young guys started trying to talk to me. I mean it wasn't terrible that they were talking to me, but it seemed like if I hadn't of been dressed up for the photo shoot then they wouldn't have acted all interested.

But my main point is that we all need to keep in mind as single girls that although the world says 'wear makeup and that's what will get you married' that isn't exacally true. Maybe it works a little, but makeup isn't going to buy you happiness. It's not going to get you where you want, because if that's not who you are then isn't it more of a fake appearance?

Anyways the happy thought of the day is that at least rent is lower when your single. ;) Yeah I was at my parents house yesterday and my brothers fiancee was telling us how the lowest they've found on rent is $1200.00/month. Yeah and to think that I pay $300.00/month on rent, all because I'm single. ;)